Become a Queen™
Become a Queen™
Become the woman
you have always
wanted to be
Master the skills it takes to become a Queen in your life who has the love, closeness and communication you've always wanted with men -- whether you're single, dating or in a long term relationship.
Become a Queen™
Become the woman
you have always
wanted to be
Master the skills it takes to become a Queen in your life who has the love, closeness and communication you've always wanted with men -- whether you're single, dating or in a long term relationship.
Did you miss the free Queen trainings and still want to see them? If yes, click here.
DOES THIS SOUND AT ALL FAMILIAR?
You're well known in your circles as a woman who has it together, who knows how to make life happen.
You've spent your life figuring out how to jump over any obstacle in your way, learning how to succeed in a man's world which is no small feat.
Buuuuut, although you're an impressive "doer," if you're honest with yourself...you know there's a voice whispering inside of you that more is possible in your life and you want THAT.
For starters, you want someone else to do some of the "doing" for a change.
You wonder who you could BE if you weren't so busy DO-ing and being in charge. You're in charge everywhere, even in your relationship with your man.
You may have begun noticing you're tired, your libido isn't what it once was, you feel a bit flatlined and certainly not like your former spunky self and you still have the other half of your life left, at least!!
You're not sure if it's your hormones or you need a new career or NO career or a new relationship or hormone replacement therapy.
You just know you need something to get things revved up in your life again.
As far as relationships go, your man is a great partner, but the relationship has lost its passion. You wonder if you'll ever get it back.
You want him to show more initiative, to lead you both on grand adventures of life or, at minimum, to stop asking you how to do everything. You just want him to make a damn decision without asking you.
I want you to know that what you long for is more than possible.
I was exactly where you are 10 years ago and wow, has my life changed to be magnificent and beautiful in so many ways.
But, in order to have what it is you desire -- to live a life that feels alive, fun, free, sexy -- you'll need to do something that might scare you at first.
We call it "stepping off the masculine plate."
You see, in order to be a proper daughter of the feminist movement and to make it in this modern world, you've been in "masculine mode" most of the time. But that WILL drain you.
We women don't have the hormonal baseline to drive towards results the way men do and that may surprise you because you're more productive than almost any man you know.
You being in masculine mode works. Until it doesn't. And then it really really doesn't.
And since you're a successful woman, I'm going to give you a hint on how to win at this next stage of your life:
You need to learn how to inspire men to provide more masculine DO'ing so you can live as a more feminine BE'ing.
You will need to learn how to reign as a Queen, rather than continuing to live as the King of your life.
I've helped thousands of women make this reclamation.
It is the ticket to a turned on, happy, joy filled life. I promise.
Why BOTH?
Because these two concepts are inextricably linked for women.
You can’t master your relationships with men if you don’t master your personal power.
And, you can’t master your personal power, as a woman, without mastering your relationships, especially with men.
Why both?
Because these two concepts are inextricably linked for women.
You can’t master your relationships with men if you don’t master your personal power.
And, you can’t master your personal power, as a woman, without mastering your relationships, especially with men.
HERE'S WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN EACH PILLAR
BECOME TRUSTABLE
This is the key to both your personal power and harmonious relationships:
Be introduced to the R.E.D. approach to transforming blame, criticism and self loathing into love, beauty, grace and ease
Understand how to navigate your most painful emotions so he doesn't pull away from you emotionally
Learn the core elements of how to build deep and lasting trust with men so that they cherish you
CHOOSE A
QUEENLY PATH
Make a powerful choice for your life this week:
Begin to master the 6 core qualities every Queen possesses
Choose who *your* Queen can be if she is fully supported
Discover the ways you treat men that disempower you both
Laugh out loud when you realize *who* you are trying to make men be
HEAL YOUR
RELATIONSHIP WITH
YOU: HAVE YOU
OWN BACK
This week is sacred and deep:
Discover why you don't naturally have your own back and how it's not your fault
Heal from all the times you abandoned yourself in order to get love
Reconnect with the little girl within who has adapted but has been too afraid to say what she wants and needs
Begin to understand how having your own back is the key to everything else you want in relationships
HEAL YOUR
RELATIONSHIP WITH
MEN: LAY DOWN
YOUR WEAPONS OF
EMASCULATION
You must heal your relationships with men to be a Queen:
Explore the places where you really don't trust men to have your back and to protect your tender heart
Learn my magic trick for building trust with EVERY man and for training him to be your HERO
Make an uber powerful choice to give up the right to emasculate men
INSPIRE HIS
GREATNESS
Learn how to become a “unicorn” men cherish and adore:
Discover the 3 most important questions you need to ask and answer before you take one more step in any relationship
Get the step-by-step process for figuring out what you want in your relationships with men
Learn the magic way to inspire men to do more for you (with no nagging!!)
GET YOUR NEEDS
MET WITH GRACE
This is where you receive my magic formula for getting your needs met. You’ll learn:
Why most newbies to feminine power misunderstand and misuse it which causes it to backfire
Must follow do’s and don'ts in your conversations with men so you come off as compelling, believable and you open their hearts
Understand how to communicate (through what you feel in your body) with men so they respond to you
Engage in labs to help you get clear about your different needs (some will be non-negotiables) and how to put them in the magic formula
INTEGRATION AND
GREAT ASK PRACTICE
It's time to see how your new-found tools work out in the "real world":
You will choose at least one man to ask for a need to be met
You'll have the support of your RED Sisters as you try your new tools
You'll delightfully discover what works and what doesn't and then come back to workshop it with your RED Sisters
CLAIM YOUR POWER:
BOUNDARIES AND
AGREEMENTS
Without this last week, you would likely fall on your face like I did:
Discover a key "boundaries" framework that will help you flourish in your relationships and to behave with more grace
Learn why feelings aren't the most important barometer for who to be close to, and what is
Explore how to assess and re-negotiate your relationships for total harmony
Be delightfully surprised when these tools affect all of your relationships, even women
I learned to love being a woman again.
This sisterhood and the work I've done along the way of being R.E.D. is the reason I am happily remarried.
This gave me the safe place to work through manifesting the love of my life.
KATHRYN METCALF-HERNQUIST
Encinitas, California USA
She's a deeply caring, perfectly imperfect, completely endearing woman, who celebrates being both a masterpiece and a work in progress, simultaneously.
I have learned deeper levels of trust and respect within the RED Sisterhood as well as many super useful life hacks.
My only regret is not listening to my initial prompt to join. I missed a couple years of support and valuable learnings.
KATHRYN D'LAIK
Auckland, New Zealand
I’ve truly never encountered a teacher like Kristin. She has a deep understanding of masculine and feminine dynamics, communication and energy.
She regularly has jaw dropping, needle moving insights.
The container she fiercely and lovingly holds is sacred medicine in itself.
Please do not underestimate the value found in having access to Kristin, especially in the live format.
Kristin is magnetic, graceful, wise and loving. We all learn from her example.
The shifts in your life that you can have by embracing the R.E.D. programs are the incredibly powerful, embodied deep in your bones, meaningful shifts.
CANDICE W.
Geological Engineer
London, England United Kingdom
ENROLL NOW AND YOU'LL GET THESE ADDITIONAL BONUSES---FREE!!
THE SUCCESS FORMULA:
START STRONG,
FINISH STRONGER
Do you ever enroll in a course with tons of momentum and commitment...and then peter out well before the end? With the principles you’ll learn in this bonus, you will finish ANY program stronger than you started and get lasting results. Never waste your money on half-finished courses again!
(Value $298)
Included With Become a Queen™
THE FASTEST PATH
TO HEAL THE PAST
This key to the Queendom will heal your past at lightning speed....the RED way. This will be nothing like what you’ve learned in any other personal development workshop and will change your relationship to your personal power forever.
(Value $298)
Included With Become a Queen™
QUEEN EMBODIMENT IMMERSION
Learn and practice the deep embodiment of your feminine power. Most women who study Queenly tools only learn mental constructs. A true Queen doesn’t just know them in her head... she embodies them with her whole being. This 3 week-long bonus alone will change your whole life!!
(Value $698)
Included With Become a Queen™
2 FREE MONTHS IN
R.E.D. SISTERHOOD™,
AN INTIMATE COMMUNITY OF WOMEN WHO SUPPORT
EACH OTHER TO BE MORE
RADIANT. EROTIC. DIVINE.
The R.E.D. Sisterhood™ is a special place. Very special. Kristin has cultivated a warm, loving, intimate environment where you will be able to be authentically yourself. You will turn to the sisterhood in times of pain, need, joy and transformation. Unlike most online communities, Kristin is personally involved and interacts with R.E.D. Sisterhood™ members every day, often appearing live on video.
In order to fully claim your power, you must heal your relationships with other women. Healthy female relationships have a vital role to play on your Queenly path. In this bonus, you will:
(Value $176 but really, it's priceless)
Included With Become a Queen™
FULL MOON RITUALS
NEW MOON RITUALS
While all of these are included in your initial R.E.D. Sisterhood™ Membership, we want you to know how rich it is in helping you connect with the Divine Feminine within.
(Value $628)
Included With Become a Queen™
RADICAL HEALING RITUALS
In these bonus LIVE sessions, Kristin will lead you through excavation and healing of all the ways your feminine essence has been hurt, discarded, abandoned, and demeaned. This deep healing work is sacred and is a crucial step to finding harmonious relationships and mutual power with men.
(Value $298)
Included With Become a Queen™
THE FAIL-PROOF FORMULA
TO GET YOUR NEEDS MET
If you're tired of:
This bonus will change everything! Kristin's fail-proof formula will teach you how to get your needs met with grace. She has tested it with thousands of women, and it WORKS.
(Value $198)
Included With Become a Queen™
REIGNITING PASSION
AND INTIMACY IN
LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIPS
When we first enter into a relationship, we do so with a specific set of agreements (most often unconsciously agreed on). Over time, and particularly as you become a Queen, those agreements may no longer work for you, your partner, or both of you. In this bonus, you will learn how to enter the next chapter of your relationship with skill and grace!
(Value $298)
Included With Become a Queen™
DATING LIKE A QUEEN
Learn how to become the Queen of the dating jungle in this epic bonus! You’ll discover how to become irresistible to worthy suitors, properly vet potential partners, set up a relationship like a pro, and maintain your center while falling in love.
(Value $298)
Included With Become a Queen™
PARENTING LIKE A QUEEN
Being a Queen doesn’t only happen in an intimate relationship...you can be a Queen with your kids, too! Learn how to have your children follow through on what they say they’ll do, respect your boundaries, and become the young Queens and Kings they are meant to be.
(Value $298)
Included With Become a Queen™
While many of us are out in the world "getting shit done" and achieving brilliant success, I've realized that the most beautiful gift we can give is our radiant feminine presence.
Kristin is one of the most potent and fiercely loving, generous teachers of how to embody feminine radiance.
Sister, if you're ready to sparkle in your life, please, please, please come join us!
We're waiting for you to be arm in arm with your sisters, stepping into your R.E.D. life!
ANGIE M.
Boulder, Colorado USA
This program and sisterhood will help change your life for the better. I know it changed mine in so many ways.
I’m not an emotional wreck anymore.
I trust my body and know what I need.
I don’t go into drama anymore and won't allow it in my life anymore.
And above all I trust and adore men again.
There is no other program, sisterhood nor coach out there that could have done all this for me.
Kristin rocks. She protects you, sees you and guides you.
If there would be only one thing you choose to do for yourself, let it be this program and sisterhood so that it may change your life for the better as well.
SABINE BAEYENS
Antwerp, Belgium
WHAT LEVEL PROGRAM IS BECOME A QUEEN™
Become a Queen™ is for badass women who are ready to live their life at the next level.
This program is unlike any other program you’ve ever taken (or even considered).
If you’re ready to graduate beyond “lean back” in dating men, and “pussy power” as your personal development strategy, you might be in the right place.
R.E.D. Sisterhood is a safe sacred place that is led and nurtured by Kristin and her mission and passion to help you discover the magic and power that is authentically who you are.
This is an opportunity to discover that there are women searching to discover their wholeness along with you who will embrace you and hold space for you and support you as you grow; when you feel afraid and want to hide, they are there to love on you and celebrate your wins, both big and small.
It's a place to truly be seen, listened to and heard.
It's a place where you learn vital skills to not only improve your own life physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually, but you are also given the framework to enhance and heal relationships in your life.
R.E.D. Sisterhood is…
SYBYL W.
Jewelry Designer, Reiki Master, Legal Assistant, Vegan Chef
Chicago, Illinois USA
I have found the most amazing place to learn and grow to be a better woman.
In a world where the feminine has been forgotten, R.E.D. Sisterhood is a place of empowerment and support.
It teaches you how to care for yourself, others, and to really have your own back.
It’s a safe container to explore how to be your best you and then gives you the tools and support to become that you, your Queen.
You get out what you put in, so I encourage you to come explore here. You will meet the most extraordinary women. I would be so excited to share this with you.
LAUREN P.
Richmond, Virginia USA
Kristin is insightful, compassionate and so generous as a coach and mentor.
I have learned so much from her about living in my feminine and being a Queen in my life.
One of the best aspects of learning from Kristin is she teaches us to make progress and be happy with that; to not aim for perfection, which is impossible and so self-defeating.
I’m learning to live a radiant, erotic and divine life step by step and concept by concept and I truly feel supported by Kristin and her team and my R.E.D. sisters.
JOAN T.
New York, New York USA
HERE'S THE TIMING OF THE PROGRAM
Registration for Become a Queen™ is open through July 19, 2020.
The program is 8 weeks and runs July 20 - September 9, 2020.
Graduation bonuses are released the week after the program ends.
30 DAY MONEY BACK GUARANTEE
This program has changed the course of thousand of women's lives.
There simply isn't a combination of everyday practical tools and deep spiritual catharsis like the Become a Queen™ program to help you claim all you've ever wanted as a woman.
As with anything, you must commit, lean in and do the work to bring about the transformation you seek. I'm so confident you will get everything you want out of this program that I'm willing to back that up with a guarantee.
If you invest your energy fully in this program and complete your homework assignments for 30 days and you don't feel that you got the value you came for, send us an email and we'll refund you.
However, if you choose not to participate fully and complete your homework assignments, you will be 100% responsible for that choice and no refund will be possible.
This program is for badass women who know the opportunity in front of them and are serious about upleveling their lives and relationships.
30 DAY
MONEY BACK GUARANTEE
This program has changed the course of thousand of women's lives.
There simply isn't a combination of everyday practical tools and deep spiritual catharsis like the Become a Queen™ program to help you claim all you've ever wanted as a woman.
As with anything, you must commit, lean in and do the work to bring about the transformation you seek. I'm so confident you will get everything you want out of this program that I'm willing to back that up with a guarantee.
If you invest your energy fully in this program and complete your homework assignments for 30 days and you don't feel that you got the value you came for, send us an email and we'll refund you.
However, if you choose not to participate fully and complete your homework assignments, you will be 100% responsible for that choice and no refund will be possible.
This program is for badass women who know the opportunity in front of them and are serious about upleveling their lives and relationships.
LET'S SUM IT UP... HERE'S WHAT YOU GET WITH BECOME A QUEEN™
Total Become a Queen™ value: $10,300
Total Become a Queen™ investment: only $898!!!
This is the best value in Feminine personal development out there! Being held in the container Kristin creates is beyond valuable.
Kristin provides a very unique and special combination of sensual and sexual exploration, energy awareness and practices, sisterhood, accountability and consciousness raising!
Also, the R.E.D. Sisterhood is sacred, deep, and life changing.
RACHELLE RAVEN
Park City, Utah USA
Let me tell you why I love the R.E.D. programs.
First, Kristin is FIERCE! She is loving and generous and an expert in embodying what she teaches.
She is also grounded while teaching us how to shift our energy and our thoughts and our reality.
Her motto of Progress not Perfection allows anyone who does the program the key to succeed and continue on our journey instead of giving up.
And the Sisterhood, absolutely priceless!
This is one of the safest places that you can shine or wallow and be seen, felt and loved by a community of women.
Quite simply, there is no other on-line program that I would recommend if you are truly seeking to live a more radiant, erotic and divine life!
MARY S.
Paris, France
Q: What does the Become a Queen™ program entail?
A: 8 weeks of 1) short form video training 2) FB LIVES with Kristin 3) audios 4) playsheets for all styles of learning 5) mentoring from Kristin 6) support from Red Sisterhood.
Q: How long do I have access to the material?
A: This program is yours to own for life.
Q: When does the Become a Queen™ program start and end?
A: Become a Queen™ starts on 7/20 and ends on 9/9.
Q: Is this program live or recorded?
A: Both. Recordings are always available for the LIVE sessions.
Q: How much time do I need each week to be successful?
A: That depends on how deep you want to go. In class time will be about 45 minutes each week. Some weeks will be a bit less and 3 weeks will be a bit more.
The women who are going to be the most successful are the ones who ask me questions, who do the homework, who really make this training a priority in their lives.
Q: Will I miss out if I can’t be LIVE or I’m going on vacation or have to work?
A: No. First of all, everything is recorded. Second, I do not want you to let a vacation or other commitment prevent you from joining this program. I will not offer it again until 2021. That’s too long to wait.
Q: What if I live in another timezone such as Africa, Europe, Asia or Australia?
A: Our students are literally from all over the world. The Pillars are released each Friday so you can watch over the weekend in your own time. For the FB LIVES with Kristin, oftentimes Europeans, Africans and Australians will watch on replay but we try to vary times so all timezones can be LIVE for some of the sessions.
Q: What relationships does this training apply to?
A: It will apply to ALL of your relationships with men and boys but most importantly to your relationship with yourself.
Q: I’m in a long term relationship. I really want to feel the aliveness and turn-on we once felt. Is that possible? Will this program help?
A: In a word - YES. We have an excellent track record of helping LTR’s reignite their passion. Be sure to catch the LIVE we do on this topic.
Q: There are so many problems to address! How will I work on them all?
A: Here’s the thing... you won’t. You start by pulling on one thread. Just one. Then you’ll start to see how all of your patterns are connected by this one thread. It’s like magic.
Q: I’ve spent a lot of money on online programs and I typically don’t even finish them. I’m afraid that will happen here. What is your suggestion?
A: This is the sole reason I am LIVE so often in the program. Recorded programs have a horrible track record for not being completed by students. The LIVE component is critical to your success to help you stay engaged. This program has a 90% completion rate. The industry has an 8% completion rate.
Q: I’ve also spent a lot of money on programs that were pretty basic. How is this different?
A: I have found most programs to be overpriced and to underdeliver. It upsets me. I don’t want you shelling out money to people and programs that won’t ultimately get you where you want to go. This program has hundreds and hundreds of stories of women who have transformed from it.
Q: I’m in a same-sex relationship. Is this program right for me?
A: Maybe. I’m hetero and speak in those terms. But we do have lesbian and bisexual women in our community who have had lots of success using the tools they learn here because I teach about masculine and feminine energies, which exist in all types of relationships.
Q: I’m a trans woman. Is this environment right for me?
A: Maybe. While we are inclusive of anyone and everyone, including those who identify as a woman, we do not yet have the level of training you might want. I am repeatedly told the RED Sisterhood™ is emotionally the safest place women have found, but I want to make sure you know what you need to to make a decision.
Q: I’m a woman of color. Is this the right place for me?
A: No matter how inclusive we are, the reality is I’m a white woman and this community is currently predominantly white. However, our community of black women has become very tight knit and are incredibly powerful and welcoming. Most of them have been in this sisterhood for years.
Every month we have a healing circle with our sisters of African descent at the center of our sisterhood. It has been a profound practice and is something we plan to continue at least through the end of the year while we educate ourselves on and combat the ways that oppression and racism have seeped into every area of our existence.
We will offer you beautiful sisterhood, if this feels like the right home for you.
Q: This sounds like Allison Armstrong's The Queen's Code. Is it?
A: Not at all. We read The Queen’s Code in week 1 of the program for the basics. Then we go way further into embodiment and healing. If you like the concepts of The Queen’s Code but really want to know how to live and be embodied as a Queen, you will love this mastery level course.
Q: What time are the LIVES during the program?
A: Some of of the LIVES take place at 9:00 or 10:00 p.m. Eastern so that Australian and North American women can join. We set a few coaching calls for earlier so Europeans can join. There will be short daily immersions in the mornings for 3 weeks (time TBD). All LIVES will be available to watch as replays.
Kristin’s R.E.D. teachings include things I was never taught growing up - absolutely invaluable things.
I’ve learned how to navigate relationship challenges and how to come out with more love on the other side.
My relationship with my wife is on the up and up after years of going aloof, not communicating, not getting needs met, and secret resentment. I can't wait to see how we continue to progress!
Overall, every aspect of my life is better with R.E.D.
It’s been everything I’ve been searching for and more.
BRIDGET McELVAIN
Functional Range Conditioning mobility specialist and Kinstretch Instructor
Boulder, Colorado USA
Joining the R.E.D. programs has opened my eyes to what life as a woman CAN be.
Learning to recognize, and how to change, old old patterns that come all the way from childhood has been so freeing to the soul.
The simple joy of being in my feminine, of letting my radiance shine, has soothed the hurts, and released the resentments.
I now feel like I actually have some power over my life and relationships which has brought much happiness.
It has reignited my sexuality and taught me to appreciate my body and ALL of it's parts - even the ones I think are not as I'd like them to be. And I have only just begun to learn - imagine what is yet to come as I continue on this path.
LAURA T.
San Rafael, California USA
You have reached a fork in the road:
Option 1: Continue on the path you’ve been following and you will most likely see the same frustrating results.
Option 2: Trust that this opportunity comes as an answer to your desire for something better for yourself and your life.
Kristin is the teacher, guide, and mentor you’ve been looking for and the R.E.D. Sisterhood is full of the love and support of sisters your soul has been longing for.
I have been a member since 2013 and my life is completely transformed from who I was when I started.
I can honestly say that Kristin has delivered on every promise of providing me the tools to be a Queen and to live a Radiant, Erotic, and Divine life.
JEWELS HARRISON
Austin, Texas USA
WHAT'S THE COST?
If you're reading this and you're still on the fence, I would like to offer you some things to consider...
A one-weekend relationship workshop to learn a fraction of these tools that you hope you'll remember once you get home will cost you anywhere from $3,000-$5,000.
One hour of couples counseling is $150-$650/hour and is commonly not very effective.
To get 2 full months of spiritual transformation, deep healing, powerful tools that work, sisterhood, and mentorship for less than $1,000 is an INCREDIBLE deal.
The program itself is well worth 5x the cost...but what I want to ask you is, what will it cost you to NOT do this program?
What is the cost of continuing to walk through your life numb, without access to your authentic feminine power?
What is the cost of your relationship continuing to plod along the way it always has?
What is the cost to your health if you keep doing doing doing all the time?
What is the cost of not modeling for your daughter to be a Queen?
We often don't really take the time to consider the cost of life as it is, and yet there is often a significant cost.
When you look at this, just give yourself a moment to reflect. What if you really can be the woman you've always wanted, with the relationship you've dreamed of?
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